"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prom

Tedward

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Question about Prom...

Is Prom more the type of dance where you NEED to bring a date? Or can you go solo and hook up with multiple girls there, like at Homecoming? Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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familyguyfan

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Some guys go solo and really pimp it up. But the ones that do that often go solo by choice. If you're friends with a lot of girls then it should be fine, but if you don't know many you will find yourself standing by yourself quite a bit. So take that into consideration if you plan on going solo.
 

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I guess what I'm really asking is, are there plenty of girls that go without dates of their own, just waiting to get picked up. And I know a fair amount of girls, but thats not really my concern. Dances are an easy place to approach girls you don't know anyway.
 

BxPrince24

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Quite a few of my friends are going solo, they feel they'll have more fun that way. I'm not going at all. Screw it. :woo:
 
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