"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Prom

Tedward

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Question about Prom...

Is Prom more the type of dance where you NEED to bring a date? Or can you go solo and hook up with multiple girls there, like at Homecoming? Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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familyguyfan

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Some guys go solo and really pimp it up. But the ones that do that often go solo by choice. If you're friends with a lot of girls then it should be fine, but if you don't know many you will find yourself standing by yourself quite a bit. So take that into consideration if you plan on going solo.
 

Tedward

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I guess what I'm really asking is, are there plenty of girls that go without dates of their own, just waiting to get picked up. And I know a fair amount of girls, but thats not really my concern. Dances are an easy place to approach girls you don't know anyway.
 

BxPrince24

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Quite a few of my friends are going solo, they feel they'll have more fun that way. I'm not going at all. Screw it. :woo:
 
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