"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Prom?

AlphaNoob

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So this girl already rejected me when I told her that i wanted us to be more than friends. Before this happened, everything was great. We saw each other every day and there were many signs that she was interested, I just knew it. However, after i told her, we didnt talk for a while, but i know she has/ had feelings for me or maybe just like me in some way bc she posted a status update on somewhere I could not see. It wasnt until my friend showed me that i realized this. This happened about a couple months ago. But anyways like how this forum is telling me, I'm following my dream, i want to be a doctor when i grow up and im studying hard. School just takes up so much time along with sports that I dont even have time to deal with any thing else. But it was spring break last week and i asked her out for a drink to gauge her interest. She said shes busy "for now" and then "unless things change" and that its still awkward btw us. I didnt ask her again bc like someone here said she'll msg me if she's rlly interested. She didnt. But i didnt follow up on any of the possible hints until today saying that i dont want things to remain awkward btw us so lets talk. She ignored it. (yea im stupid i shouldve followed up on that a lot sooner) But iono does this girl look like shes still interested? I rlly want to take her out to prom, but right now it seems like shes gonna say no like she always had. :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mike32ct

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Mike32ct spins the magic SS wheel.

The wheel is slowing down. It's stopping on....

"Lose a turn. Find another prom date."

Seriously man, you did everything you could. Just go no contact and leave Ms. "It's too awkward" to her awkward self.

I wish I had better news for you. Sorry.

Your mission now is to find another prom date. Go to the prom with another chick, dance your a$s off, and make Ms. Awkward feel like 3 cents waiting for change.

She WILL show up at the prom with either some douchbag guy (80 percent chance) or she'll go group lez with her gfs "just to dance" (10 percent) or not show at all (10 percent). It doesn't matter. Don't give it a second thought.

Feeling frustrated or not confident about your mission? Read my signature quote.
 

AlphaNoob

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Mike32ct said:
Mike32ct spins the magic SS wheel.

The wheel is slowing down. It's stopping on....

"Lose a turn. Find another prom date."

Seriously man, you did everything you could. Just go no contact and leave Ms. "It's too awkward" to her awkward self.

I wish I had better news for you. Sorry.

Your mission now is to find another prom date. Go to the prom with another chick, dance your a$s off, and make Ms. Awkward feel like 3 cents waiting for change.

She WILL show up at the prom with either some douchbag guy (80 percent chance) or she'll go group lez with her gfs "just to dance" (10 percent) or not show at all (10 percent). It doesn't matter. Don't give it a second thought.

Feeling frustrated or not confident about your mission? Read my signature quote.
Nah i feel confident after all the things i have read on this site, but just wanna see, where can i find your quote?
 
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