my senior prom isnt until june, but i have to buy a ticket to it very soon. first off im pretty sure that im going to go. but i'm not sure about who i will go With. so i need your guys help on this. i know some girls that i can go with, but dont really want to go with. and then there is this other girl who i Never ever talk to, just because i never see her in school alot. i want to ask her to go with me, the only problem is that she might get spooked out because ive never said a word to her in my life. well maybe once in middle school. it isnt a matter of social proff in this sitation, its really about not knowing each other. is it a bad idea to ask her?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I think you should start talking to her first.
canadianmetalhead
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establish contact with her right now dude, start gaming the **** out of her, then ask her. you might get lucky on prom night
easy. first step:establish contact try a hi or hello day to day. step two: start some conversation and start pre kino and bust her balls (****y funny) and use basic conversation imagining(check art of conversation by pulse hs bible). after you developed enough mystery eventually get her number when yall like touching and laughing basis. a month or two prior ask her to prom.GL
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.