"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prom trouble with girl

jlazz

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There's a sophmore who I want to take to prom, but I don't really know her...met her at a party. She invited me to her sweet 16, so I went. Called her the next day to chill, she said yah..called her later that day, but she didn't pickup or call me back.

Should I call her up tomorrow to chill tues night? And how should I go about building attraction. I've never dated someone younger than me...how is it different? I'm playful by nature and joke around a lot.

I plan on asking her to prom the night we hangout...I want to make sure she says yes, any tips. I know she has some interest in me without really knowing me, I just need to find a way to setup a date soon.
 

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jlazz said:
There's a sophmore who I want to take to prom, but I don't really know her...met her at a party. She invited me to her sweet 16, so I went. Called her the next day to chill, she said yah..called her later that day, but she didn't pickup or call me back.

Should I call her up tomorrow to chill tues night? And how should I go about building attraction. I've never dated someone younger than me...how is it different? I'm playful by nature and joke around a lot.

I plan on asking her to prom the night we hangout...I want to make sure she says yes, any tips. I know she has some interest in me without really knowing me, I just need to find a way to setup a date soon.
Follow the things I outlined. If you do it right and make sure you don't come off as desperate, you should be alright. Just keep in mind all the other forms of attraction when using my tips, they will help you.
 

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I have a problem now...I called her saturday after calling her earlier in the day, and the second time I called it rang 3 times then went to voicemail...I didn't leave a msg and she didn't call back. I called again last night around 8 and the same thing happened...3 rings and voicemail. So I decided to text msg her "hey", but she didn't reply. I don't see any reason why she would ignore me, so it could it be that something is wrong with her cell phone? Should I try to call w/ my caller id blocked? I have her AIM sn, but she's rarely on and I need to setup a date for tonight. Should I send her a message on myspace, or would that seem desperate?
 

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jlazz said:
could it be that something is wrong with her cell phone?
No. She's avoiding you. There is no "date for tonight", or any night......
 

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jlazz said:
I have a problem now...I called her saturday after calling her earlier in the day, and the second time I called it rang 3 times then went to voicemail...I didn't leave a msg and she didn't call back. I called again last night around 8 and the same thing happened...3 rings and voicemail. So I decided to text msg her "hey", but she didn't reply. I don't see any reason why she would ignore me, so it could it be that something is wrong with her cell phone? Should I try to call w/ my caller id blocked? I have her AIM sn, but she's rarely on and I need to setup a date for tonight. Should I send her a message on myspace, or would that seem desperate?
Keyword:NEXT!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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code2009 said:
Keyword:NEXT!
Yah...I normally would, but she's my last hope for a Prom Date...I have no one else to ask.
 

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Gave you your own thread for this problem.
 

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man you acted way too desperate, you called waaaay to much. think man you want her to want YOU. being needy and desperate wont attract her to you
 

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prom isn't even a big deal man. just go alone like i am and just have a blast. it's all about you. not some girl. i'm actually planning on picking up this hot girl who's going alone with friends
 
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