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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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There's a sophmore who I want to take to prom, but I don't really know her...met her at a party. She invited me to her sweet 16, so I went. Called her the next day to chill, she said yah..called her later that day, but she didn't pickup or call me back.

Should I call her up tomorrow to chill tues night? And how should I go about building attraction. I've never dated someone younger than me...how is it different? I'm playful by nature and joke around a lot.

I plan on asking her to prom the night we hangout...I want to make sure she says yes, any tips. I know she has some interest in me without really knowing me, I just need to find a way to setup a date soon.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jlazz said:
There's a sophmore who I want to take to prom, but I don't really know her...met her at a party. She invited me to her sweet 16, so I went. Called her the next day to chill, she said yah..called her later that day, but she didn't pickup or call me back.

Should I call her up tomorrow to chill tues night? And how should I go about building attraction. I've never dated someone younger than me...how is it different? I'm playful by nature and joke around a lot.

I plan on asking her to prom the night we hangout...I want to make sure she says yes, any tips. I know she has some interest in me without really knowing me, I just need to find a way to setup a date soon.
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Follow the things I outlined. If you do it right and make sure you don't come off as desperate, you should be alright. Just keep in mind all the other forms of attraction when using my tips, they will help you.
 
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I have a problem now...I called her saturday after calling her earlier in the day, and the second time I called it rang 3 times then went to voicemail...I didn't leave a msg and she didn't call back. I called again last night around 8 and the same thing happened...3 rings and voicemail. So I decided to text msg her "hey", but she didn't reply. I don't see any reason why she would ignore me, so it could it be that something is wrong with her cell phone? Should I try to call w/ my caller id blocked? I have her AIM sn, but she's rarely on and I need to setup a date for tonight. Should I send her a message on myspace, or would that seem desperate?
 
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jlazz said:
could it be that something is wrong with her cell phone?
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No. She's avoiding you. There is no "date for tonight", or any night......
 
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jlazz said:
I have a problem now...I called her saturday after calling her earlier in the day, and the second time I called it rang 3 times then went to voicemail...I didn't leave a msg and she didn't call back. I called again last night around 8 and the same thing happened...3 rings and voicemail. So I decided to text msg her "hey", but she didn't reply. I don't see any reason why she would ignore me, so it could it be that something is wrong with her cell phone? Should I try to call w/ my caller id blocked? I have her AIM sn, but she's rarely on and I need to setup a date for tonight. Should I send her a message on myspace, or would that seem desperate?
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Keyword:NEXT!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yah...I normally would, but she's my last hope for a Prom Date...I have no one else to ask.
 
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Gave you your own thread for this problem.
 
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man you acted way too desperate, you called waaaay to much. think man you want her to want YOU. being needy and desperate wont attract her to you
 
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prom isn't even a big deal man. just go alone like i am and just have a blast. it's all about you. not some girl. i'm actually planning on picking up this hot girl who's going alone with friends
 
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