Alright, this is it. Today i'm asking the girl to the prom. We hung out together earlier today and it went pretty well. Although i didn't get any kino going, i got some laughs. Tonight there's a party that she's going to be in. I'm thinking I will ask her if there ever is a slow dance part, whispering into her ear, that would be great, but i dont know if there's a slow dance part. So if not, i will ask her after the party, maybe when she is going towards her car, ill walk her there and ask or something. AHHH so many thoughts going through my head. what if she says noo?? mm...any advice on what im doing would be nice :nervous:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Prom Time
- Thread starter Oni
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
LaDanian Tomlinson
Don Juan
just chill
I have a few tips because I just did this a while ago, and I have learned from my mistakes so here it goes:
1) Make up your mind - the worst thing to do is hesitate. Once you commit to asking her, do it. I probably came off insecure because I just stood there and we were both obviously uncomfortable just looking around.
2) Casual - make it casual when you ask. Unless you want to pull a Laguna Beach thing, just keep it casual. I got so nervous because I had a plan to ask in a "creative" way, but it backfired because I got nervous...yeah...
3) Ask when you two are alone - My mates' gfs say girls wanna be asked alone because otherwise they feel trapped and will bull**** or say no, sometimes even when they mean yes. I went to ask, and one of her damn friends tagged along because she was being nosy and that added to my nervousness. It's also weird with some giggly girl standing there and I wanted to drop kick her ass across the room....spectators aren't cool man.
4) Ask in person - self explanatory.
5) Dealing with rejection - see it as how I saw my rejection: this girl missed out on a free fun night with me, so I'm going to light up another girl's night.
6) It's just prom - no biggie man. If it doesn't work out, hey it's a big ass dance and all, but you won't look back in 10 years and feel bad about this girl. You will laugh about the rejection with your mates.
Cheers man, and good luck.
1) Make up your mind - the worst thing to do is hesitate. Once you commit to asking her, do it. I probably came off insecure because I just stood there and we were both obviously uncomfortable just looking around.
2) Casual - make it casual when you ask. Unless you want to pull a Laguna Beach thing, just keep it casual. I got so nervous because I had a plan to ask in a "creative" way, but it backfired because I got nervous...yeah...
3) Ask when you two are alone - My mates' gfs say girls wanna be asked alone because otherwise they feel trapped and will bull**** or say no, sometimes even when they mean yes. I went to ask, and one of her damn friends tagged along because she was being nosy and that added to my nervousness. It's also weird with some giggly girl standing there and I wanted to drop kick her ass across the room....spectators aren't cool man.
4) Ask in person - self explanatory.
5) Dealing with rejection - see it as how I saw my rejection: this girl missed out on a free fun night with me, so I'm going to light up another girl's night.
6) It's just prom - no biggie man. If it doesn't work out, hey it's a big ass dance and all, but you won't look back in 10 years and feel bad about this girl. You will laugh about the rejection with your mates.
Cheers man, and good luck.
six-foot AZN '05
Don Juan
Yeah, Oni listen to Potbelly. It works. I did the same stuff to get me a prom date.
Thanks guys, but here's what happened tonight lol
she showed up, and she brought a friend who just didnt want to do anything at all! she just sat by herself so the girl i was gonna ask felt bad and went home early with her, before the slow dancing part =/ and i cant go up to her when she is leaving because her friend was with her. Oh well, i'll have to come up with another opportuniy. Any suggestions though?
she showed up, and she brought a friend who just didnt want to do anything at all! she just sat by herself so the girl i was gonna ask felt bad and went home early with her, before the slow dancing part =/ and i cant go up to her when she is leaving because her friend was with her. Oh well, i'll have to come up with another opportuniy. Any suggestions though?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DA****, you guys have no idea how mad i am right now. What happened tonight was NOT suppose to be like that! Her reclusive friend is P*****G me OFF SO MUCH! I can't sleep at all right now so i feel like ranting it out rather than banging my head on the wall. my one perfect opportunity RUINED. Sigh...
I actually had a chance..a 5 second slow dance with her before she noticed that her friend was sitting by herself so she told me she wants to go hang with her lonely friend...i know my chance with this girl is high right now but i have to do it soon before it takes too long! When she was leaving she just said a quick goodbye and left... UGH
*banging head on wall
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I actually had a chance..a 5 second slow dance with her before she noticed that her friend was sitting by herself so she told me she wants to go hang with her lonely friend...i know my chance with this girl is high right now but i have to do it soon before it takes too long! When she was leaving she just said a quick goodbye and left... UGH
*banging head on wall
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