"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prom Tickets? Do I Buy...

centurionlemas

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Hey guys!

I understand that you should never buy a girl (expensive dinners, gifts..) when your first going out.
I've stood by this idea for a long time, but now prom has come around and I was wondering what everyone's opinions our regarding buying your date her ticket?
I can afford her ticket, just wondering if I should buy it?

Thanks!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jmac21

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if she is your date and you asked her then its your choice. i would, it isn't a sign of weakness or anything your taking her to prom... If she is from a different school then you 100% need to. My friend didn't buy his date the ticket and she freaked out on him. My situation was different I went to her prom so she bought my ticket and shes coming to mine so i bought hers so we basically went even.
 
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