"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Prom Question

Spyder213

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Ok so my prom is today and Im kind of torn on whether I should go or not. A couple weeks ago I got in a little fight with the girl I was going to ask. During that time she decided to go with some guy she barely even knows. Since then she has told me she really wishes she was going with me instead and not this other guy. But anyway, Im still dateless. I had asked two other girls after I found out she was going with another guy but these girls arent in high school anymore so they had to work and all that because they don't base their weekend around prom.

So basically I'm wondering if I should go even though I dont have a date. I would be going with a huge group of like 30 other people so it wouldnt be that weird. Should I just try to steal this girl from her date when we get there or something? Or will I look like a loser to her if I show up with no date? Ha I know she likes me better than this guy but its going to suck if I have to see her with him all night...

So I need some help. Should I go? Will she think Im a loser if I dont have a date or if I dont even show up at all?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nismo-4

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If these 30 guys got dates, you'd better go find one. I dunno, but where I'm from, going in a group like that without a date meant you were the butt of everyone's jokes.

F**k what this girl thinks. She left your ass dateless. You think she likes you but she likes gagging on this other dude's dik more!

IMO, you'll look like a loser if you go alone. Not only to the girl, but also to your peers. There are other things you can do on prom night.
 

Bladerunner

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What nismo said.

Go find some other girl, stop caring what she thinks, and go have a better night than her.
 

ArcBound

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Prom is about having fun with all the people you knew from high school before you go (or don't) to college... half of the kids you will never see again. The idea is to go and have fun dude with or without a date... Seriously if you can't get a date don't worry about it, freaking have fun get drunk and watch everyone make fools of themselves. Plus more often than not some girl who had a crush on you will end up wanting to dance or grind with you. Are you going to avoid prom cause you're afraid of being dateless? You will be the only person in your school not having or a good time...

Also....afterparties from prom. Enough said.
Have fun
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nabster

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Yeah mate you should definately go it'll be a good laugh. Don't worry bout not havin a date you can probably pick up a girl there. If you don't go you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
 
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