"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prom Problem

chuk15

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So, how do you get a girl who hates dances to go w/ you to prom?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ENIGMA16

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I ended up going to two proms (one was mine and one was my girlfriend-at-the-time's, who was two years younger), and I had fun, although it was pretty stupid.

Just ask her. What do you mean she doesn't like to dance? I don't think I've ever met a girl that doesn't like to dance; you sure she's not just saying that because she's trying to let you down nicely? If she likes you she'll go with you. All you can do is ask.
 

chuk15

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Yeah, I asked her but she said something to the effect that she wasn't planning on going.

I'm going to ask some other girls now (one of 'em is her friend) if they want to go w/ me.

(need a bit of advice: would you just go up to the girl and ask straight-up or would you converse for a bit before asking? The former's what I did with the original girl.)
 

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San Jose California said:
Or you could just not go since it's not that great.

But if you do, ask out all the hot teachers to prom. Just do it. You will look like the biggest player in the school. My friend asked a few teachers as a joke and they said no, not a big deal, you can do it too.
Lmao, that'd be hilarious to do.
 

AlexLefty

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San Jose California said:
Or you could just not go since it's not that great.

But if you do, ask out all the hot teachers to prom. Just do it. You will look like the biggest player in the school. My friend asked a few teachers as a joke and they said no, not a big deal, you can do it too.
Or a little bit creepy...
Although, I have done that before (not exactly a dance but dates etc.) and it gets a good laugh out of the class but looking back on it I kind of laugh, but also think...that was kind of weird haha

But about asking think about this:
Which would you rather prefer? A girl who just walked up to you and said 'Want to go to the dance?', and then turned around and walked away.
Or
A girl who talked to you for a little bit/made you laugh/eased the ice a little and then asked you?

I guess it also depends on how good your friendship is too and how much you talk to her. Also I know at my school, for some of the dances it's the norm/you should ask the girl in a creative way by like putting it in a fortune cookie or something. For example, for one of our dances, one of my friends bought a pack of sweedish fish and tapped a letter on it that said something like 'Of all the fish of the sea, will you go to winters with me?' and left it at her locker or something.

So yeah, that's my basic thoughts...
Personally, I would just go talk to her for a lil, and then ask her.
good luck
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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