"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Prom Page
- Thread starter Conquer
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Ask a stupid question get a stupid answer....
Na just playing with you, I know what you were hoping for a nice wall of information most of which will be plain obvious sh!t that you already know or this whole website about getting heaps of hot girls has hidden in the secret bible you may not of herd about it but theres a button for it in the bottom corner but don't tell anyone...............
I'ma give you a tip though, because i'm nice
Treat prom like it's nothing just another night out, and be friendly and ask a hot girl but make sure you come off like you just trying to have fun not get a fvck afterwards what i waste of time that is i would just go to a kegger and get myself a drunk fvck if thats how it was haha but the point is it's just about having fun, you probably won't even hang out with the chick you asked to the prom during the prom. Your mates will be there her mates will be there.... nothing happens...
Just don't think asking a girl to prom is a relationship commitment or a way to get the girl you want.
So girls are just as desperate as guys. Hope that helps any.
Pdizzzzzzle
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Plan for after!!
Don't stick to her but don't be a ghost.
DANCE! Even if you don't want to. Others will look more awkward than you and you can make fun of them. You do not want to be the guy girls talk about and say "he didn't even dance with her." Get a good friend to loosen you up first (but if your date is serious then don't make her mad).
DO NOT ASK IF YOU ARE GONNA FVCK AFTER!!!!!!
Be a motherfvcking gentleman, doors and all!
I barely know the girl, I'm not really sure if she likes me but for now I'll be optimistic that she does like me (lol), but I dunno if I should try taking her on a few dates before prom, I wouldn't mind gong as more than friends. What's your suggestion on this?