"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Prom Nite! OMG!!!

TheLonelyOne

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Well today's prom nite for me. I'm going with a girl that i only know from classes and a little talk. We're going over to her house (contains parents) before and after b/c we're taking a limo to the prom.

One of my major concerns for the prom is my problem with Hyperhydrolysis. I have sweaty hands that gross many girls and guys out. Only thing is that she doesn't know i have sweaty hands. Any suggestions how i should cope with it?

Nother THing I need to learn how to "fast dance" any advice would be greatly appreciated. OOMMFG PROM!!

Nother thing lool. I'm thinking of asking her out on a real date after prom, so how should I conduct myself with her.

I'm not an excessivly touchy or perverted guy. So i will not be engaging in any sexual conduct after the prom at her house, hopefully.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheVirtualMind

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Put a hankerchief in your front pocket and use it to wipe your hand off *act like you are digging for gum or something and wipe your hand off quickly in your pocket.*

Fast dance - Do you mean grind?

Date afterwards - Talk to her, get to know her, and get comfortable around her and make her comfortable with you.
 

Silus

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Put a hankerchief in your front pocket and use it to wipe your hand off *act like you are digging for gum or something and wipe your hand off quickly in your pocket.*
Nope.

HyperHidrosis, you mean. Theres a product called Certain Dri 72 hour protection. Its a non-prescription anti antiperspirant that you could try putting on your hands / wherever you have it. It worked for me.

So i will not be engaging in any sexual conduct after the prom at her house, hopefully.
- Atta boy.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Try not to worry so much about your hands. You might get to nervous and act nervous around your date. Which could f#ck up your game and mind set if you dwell on it.

How long have you known this girl? Don't jump to conclusions too fast.
 
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