"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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!!!prom Is 5 Hours Any Advice, Tricks, Tips???

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Ok, I know this is stupid, it's only Jr. High ect. I realise that, however it means a lot to me, because I'm a grade nine student. All my "friends" have amazing dates and they all doubt me because I don't have a date, everyone thinks I'll have a tough night I want to prove them wrong and have an enjoyable night, please leave advice or if you have any tricks for dances/parties, it'd be very much appreciated, thank you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uhm... relax.. dont concentrate too hard on having fun or enjoying more than others.. let it come naturally. Listen to some music which will get you pumped up. Read you're favourite posts from the bible
 

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great post above.play music you like on the way to pick up your date etc. just have fun,i put too much into taking the hottest date i could,which ended up being a deadbeat. just have fun chill with your friends.
 

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...aah one tip, try not to get too drunk before prom and end up puking all over the lap off your date in the limo...:rolleyes:yea... statistics show that 9 out of 10 girls may not be into that.

well anyway, there will be a lot of hungry pussies looking for a hot dog tonight (from my experience). so if you play your cards right u may be the main course for some lucky girl....hehe. don't worry too much or ovethink things kid, i'm almost certain u'll be fine :cool:

p.s. fuk your lame ass friends!!

p.p.s. fuk their girlfriends too! that'll show'em.lol.
 

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pull a napoleon dynamite and bust out some crazy dances
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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