"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Prom Dilemma

jlazz

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Hey guys...prom is in May and I go to an all guys school. I don't know any girls at the moment, just some ones I've met at get-together's but don't have their #'s. I want to get a prom date. What should I do?

Also, when do people usually start asking each other to be their date for prom? I don't want to be dateless. Would it be weird if I just met a girl lets say at a party, got her #, called her and hungout one time, then talked to her a bit more and eventually asked her to be my date? Please give tips. Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wavejams007

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invite your mom.



seriously, we need more info about you to help. Do you go clubbing a lot? Is there a school w/ girls close by?
 

jlazz

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Okay heres more info:

The school close by is ghetto (I go to a private school). I usually hang out in my friend's towns which are higher class.

I don't go clubbin at all, but I think I'm going to go either this weekend or sometime soon.

The reason why I don't know many girls is because I grew up near my school whereas my friends grewup in the suburbs. The girls that are my type live near my friends. I'm starting to hangout more with my friends and trying to get to know more girls.

If you need anymore info, lemme know
 

BrandoCommando

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yeah, just go out with your friends at every chance and meet girls and go from there.
 
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