"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Prom Dilemma

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Hey guys...prom is in May and I go to an all guys school. I don't know any girls at the moment, just some ones I've met at get-together's but don't have their #'s. I want to get a prom date. What should I do?

Also, when do people usually start asking each other to be their date for prom? I don't want to be dateless. Would it be weird if I just met a girl lets say at a party, got her #, called her and hungout one time, then talked to her a bit more and eventually asked her to be my date? Please give tips. Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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invite your mom.



seriously, we need more info about you to help. Do you go clubbing a lot? Is there a school w/ girls close by?
 
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Okay heres more info:

The school close by is ghetto (I go to a private school). I usually hang out in my friend's towns which are higher class.

I don't go clubbin at all, but I think I'm going to go either this weekend or sometime soon.

The reason why I don't know many girls is because I grew up near my school whereas my friends grewup in the suburbs. The girls that are my type live near my friends. I'm starting to hangout more with my friends and trying to get to know more girls.

If you need anymore info, lemme know
 
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yeah, just go out with your friends at every chance and meet girls and go from there.
 
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