"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prom Date

we all eat food

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okay so heres the deal, pretty much i dont want to goto prom cause, 1st off, its a waste of money, and 2nd off its a waste of my time. but i have to go anyway cause mommy wants me to go.

so first off. I dont know where to get one, i dont have a gf, so its pretty pointless.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Shocker

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get your mom to pay for it if she wants you to go so badly.
 

shydude

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i dont get this thread, instead of complainin you should get a grip and take over the situation, if you dont wanna go, dont go. IF you cant afford it, your out of luck, if you scared to talk to a women then you got a big problem, if you think its a waste of time, it isnt, dont go then if its a waste. Stop *****1n..



TROLL TROLL TROLL


By the way, how the fuvk is it the waste of your time. Its prom, you will remember it, good moments.. sitting near computer is a waste of your time unless your doing something tht will actually improve your life. Watching TV is a waste of time. GOING to the prom with a women, dance, have fun is not a waste of time, and not a waste of money.

Like i said, instead of bich1n you should do sometin about it.

Your 17, your not 5 anymore. <<<
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BBX

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he's not a troll, he's fukin gangster son, african american indivuidal smackin dat big white girl booty
 
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