"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prom date

DJ Axton

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Hey again all. So, School prom is comin up and I need a date. Well, I don't NEED a date, but I gotta keep my image here. So, Iv set my sites on a girl. I don't think I've ever talked to her before on the count that we're in completely different circles of friends, but she knows very well who I am, although she's got no insight into my personal life, only my school persona.

Anyway, I'm in need of an opening line. Nothing else, I can take it from there. If you do have any tips then fire away though. The thing is, I hate to get involved with girls in school (it dont bother me since i hav enough girls outta school), and I just need a way to initiate conversation, that's all.

Thanks if u can help.

Axton.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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