Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Prom date help thread

linos100

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So I wanted to ask about a personal prom date question, but apparently there is no active prom date thread, so why not have one? Please, any help to answer the questions on this thread is welcomed. I will try to keep the answers to other questions posted about prom on this post in case they are helpful for someone else.

So, I was before an Average Chump, now I have changed my ways and tried to better myself, I still have a very long road ahead but I feel I am in the right path.
Prom is coming near and I asked a girl to prom (a year younger), problem is, she just blushed a lot (red as a tomato) and said "I will think about it". That was Thursday. Asked her again today (Monday), again she blushed a lot and said "I don´t know". I really think she is in a tipping point between going and not going. What can I do to move this tipping point in my favor?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Ill think about it"

Think about this statement for bit. If you were in her position, and someone asked you but you did not want to go with themu. How would have you responded?

"No"?


I doubt it (unless you are exceptionally blunt)
I am sure you would have responded along the same lines she did. You want to avoid hurting the person's feelings right? (They did in the end find you attractive)

I'd say she rejected you, but it depends on the situation you are in(how well you know her, the situation etc).
Asking twice was a mistake. If she wanted to go with you, she'd have approached you by now.

Best advice is to ask someone else.
 

linos100

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thanks, I didn´t want to ask someone else in case that she said yes as this would make me look like an ass, now I will try not to worry when asking another person.
 
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