kingxxxman
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What do i do? lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Prom date doesn't grind?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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she doesn't. shes like the quiet intellectual type.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Okay, even though that still had little to no detail I'm gonna tell you that you need to stop worrying. Trust me, if everyone is on the floor grinding and she is the only one at the table, she will feel much more awkward sitting there than trying something new. You also just need to be fun and encourage her. Most girls will not just grab you and start grinding on you out of no-where without you leading. (Unless you were me since I went to 2 proms and that happened to me where even one girl i had a thing with just grinded on me in front of her boyfriend not even on the dance floor, awkward). So just make it seem fun and if worst comes to worst. You didn't grind, big deal it doesn't ruin the prom.
At my schools prom they were completely strict since it is a catholic school and half of the kids just danced in a big sausage fest doing stupid moves and whatever. If this happens at your school do what I did. Tell her you want to dance and give her your hand and if she follows you need to find a spot in the middle of the dance floor and just start. I was the first one to grind but I didn't really care because that got all my friends to come around and do the same. I used to not be as confident but hey, the prom will only be as fun as you make it and some kids said "man our prom sucked" and i thought "well compared to my other one it did but i made this one pretty good" because if i hadn't made my move then I woulda sat there regretting it. So go out and have a good time, make the best of your prom you wont regret it
At my schools prom they were completely strict since it is a catholic school and half of the kids just danced in a big sausage fest doing stupid moves and whatever. If this happens at your school do what I did. Tell her you want to dance and give her your hand and if she follows you need to find a spot in the middle of the dance floor and just start. I was the first one to grind but I didn't really care because that got all my friends to come around and do the same. I used to not be as confident but hey, the prom will only be as fun as you make it and some kids said "man our prom sucked" and i thought "well compared to my other one it did but i made this one pretty good" because if i hadn't made my move then I woulda sat there regretting it. So go out and have a good time, make the best of your prom you wont regret it
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kingxxxman
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Should i try to make a move for it and just grab her by the hips and do it? or would that make things awkward?!
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Why dont you go find out?kingxxxman said:
Grinding is not a must dude. Id rather go for the kiss than dry hump her.
Just dont wait untill the end of the night to kiss her.
And have fcking fun, you'll regret if you dont.
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well we're going to the same afterparty and sleeping over... so i wouldn't want to **** it up and have the rest of the night be awkward.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Whats the worst case scenario, and how likely is it?kingxxxman said:
Kissing her if she likes you only increases attraction, even if she gives you the cheek.
If she doesn't like you, it seems like you just saved yourself a lot of trouble.