Prom Advice

[Clarky]

Guys im stuck

Prom is in two months, now I planned to ask today, on the last day of term (yeah i know should have done it earlier) lol.

What happens...she's ill....

Now i have a dilemma see, i won't see this girl for 2 weeks. Asking her on the phone or msn seems risky, doubt it's how she would imagin being asked haha.

But leaving it 2 weeks allows some other hot blooded 'playa' to swoop in there...

It's my own fault this girl was into me pretty big style, but i was going out to clubs and meeting other girls. She's a good looker but wasn't my first choice. Now I wasn't too bothered about taking a girl with me, but that's all changed, I'm the kind of guy that SHOULD be going with someone, people EXPECT me to go with a girl, girls want me to go with them and it got me thinking that this is only gonna happen once may aswell make the most of it?

Plus it vertually guarantees me atleast one make out on that night and if all else fails well atleast i will have that to remember. Its not like we're getting together but it's just a safety net, and it would feel good to be going with someone.

Advice please?

 

[619joe]

Well see you know what your mistake is so thats good

1.Either try (if possible) to find another suitable girl to go with

OR the more likelier one

2.Just phone the girl up.See your thinking about an option but then declining it.Think of it as a "phone-a-friend" lifeline and USE IT!For the love of god you have a chance here to call her up and ask!Who cares if you doubt its how she would like to be asked?If you really care so much about that then tell her "I was planning to go with ____,but plans fell through so I figured id call you up see if you would like to go with me".Think about it this way,you may think thats not the way she would like to be asked BUT shes not gonna be thinking of that anymore.Why?Because she most likely from what you know doesnt already have a date and is sick so she would be more than happy to accept your offer.

Keep us posted

 

[j0n024]

how the hell did you get in clubs without getting carded? I've been trying and I always get asked for ID....lol.

I think what you should do though is ask one of her friends and it should get around to her in a while.

 

[Clarky]

Yeah thanks for that guys, didnt post this in HS Forum because most of them are in the same position as me lol. Wanted info from guys who have been in this position in the past..

j0n024...as for the clubs..a friend of mine is a regular at one, she got me in the first time and i've just become a familiar face, Getting to know the owner helped lol so now I get in all the time