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Prolonged eye-contact (or staring)

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Ok, firstly, I'm a 21 female...

a quick question:

What are you guys actually thinking when you give prolonged eye-contact to a girl you see on a street or somewhere (hmm, some would call it staring)? Just curious! and also, from a girl's point of view, if you're interested in knowing the girl, and she seems to be interested too, talk to her, damn it! ;)

Ok, that's it.

cheers.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Men aren't that complex. You know when we feed fish they kinda just go up towards the food when you throw those specs of funny smelling fish food in? The fish don't have a lot of thought behind it - just instinct saying there is some food up there.

Its kinda' like that for men and staring at women. :)
 

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You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I pretty much have my sh*t together...UNTIL i look into the girl's eyes. and then I'm a fool tripping on words.
 
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What are you guys actually thinking when you give prolonged eye-contact to a girl you see on a street
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There's no real answer to that, and it depends a lot on the circumstances I'm in.

If I see a girl in the street and decide to begin staring into her eyes, then chances are I'm thinking something along the lines of either:

1. hmm, she's ok. I'd do her.

2. She's hot, I hope staring into her eyes will show her that i'm a confident guy and maybe telegraph my interest without being too obvious -- because I'm feeling like a pvssy today and dont wanna have to say "hi".

3. wow. Thats 5 now! I'm almost there with today's bootcamp assignments! :p

'owever, it's not always a conscious decision. Sometimes your eyes just meet with someone else's, and you start to wonder why they're looking at you. And you dont want to look away first, for pride reasons of course.

And sometimes it's just a bit of fun, because you're bored and feel like a little bit of flirting. Staring into a hot girl's eyes gives you a rush no matter how many times you've done it, and it's very low risk. You see what I'm saying here?
 
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