"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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drift king

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how do you do this on a date?

we always hear that it's important for her to see you as a prize and to not put her on a pedestal but how do you demonstrate prizeability without coming across as an arrogant idiot?

usually she'll just cuss u down or counter your ****y responses.. what would be typical topics to talk about or things to say to her that make her qualify herself to you/demonstrate you're the prize?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's not about showing her that you are the prize, because that would put the focus on her. It's about thinking that you are the prize (actually A prize) to be won, no matter what she does. Don't worry about showing her you are. Know you are. She will know by your subconcious actions that are a result of your mindset.

Don't think so much. Know you are the prize and focus on the fun.
 
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There are numerous strategies to making yourself into the prize.

Al Moh's is 1 however IMO that takes time to get down (You have to have numerous plates spinning, confidence up high, etc).

I juts read Mystery's book of Venusian Arts and he has a step by step guide on how to portray yourself as the prize. His step by step guide literally gets the girl chasing YOU. It really is a good read, you should pick it up.
 
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a man who projects prize ability is a man who seriously is or in his mind is better than the female counterpart...think about it the girl doesnt like that one guy who you once was
1.no car
2.no job.
3.live with parents
4.no dreams or goals
5. trampy clothes

and this guy is trying to get the numbers she see's most guys like this just if she thinks you have one...girls make ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT EVERYTHING...

now you have the same guy about a year later and he's goal-oriented in school got
1. a car
2.a job
3.got his own apartment
4.has dreams and goals....

this guy will DISPLAY a curtain demeanor that most girls are attracted to...this guy isn't primarily thinking about women seeing that his life is the most interesting thing in his existence...girls GRAVITATE to this guy because successful men are more rare than men who are not...this guy doesn't fake what he has and his personality reflects this...
 
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