Project "You Only Live Once"

[iLoveCookies]

So I had an epiphany while taking a shower, yeah dont ask I have epiphanies at the most random times.

Anyway, I only live once and lets face it, I have been waiting for a train that has never come. When I was in high school I was fat. I really wanted to live my life and wanted to be liked so I started dieting and lifting weights and lost all the weight. I did way too much cardio and didn't diet right so I became skin and bones and didn't feel comfortable enough in my own skin to hit on girls.

I continued working out, got yolked out but unfortunately still wasn't a Men's Health Model so I said to myself, "hey I know what I am doing now, let me diet right, I will drop like 15 lbs and I will be ripped and then I will start picking up on chics"

So I dieted got ripped but I didn't feel confident in myself to pick up on a girl I find attractive. I thought about it, hey I am not tan, thats why I dont feel good about myself. (this was like a couple months ago)

I couldn't afford a tan so I figure hey let the summer come I will get tan and then pick up on girls and here I am sitting like an idiot......


So.... starting tomorrow I am going to approach every single girl I find attractive. I for some strange reason have really really really high standards so I am going to have to lower those but I figured I would document my progress.

I will try to post every day but if not at least a couple times a week. Any solid pointers will be appreciated.

 

[SamePendo]

I get what you mean.

Allthough its very dangerous to get comfortable. That same energy that made you get ripped and all, all can go away if you settle and get comfortable.

Don't.

But yeah, it's good you realize that the change comes within.

I, personally, don't like the way I look, speak, etc. But action leaves that fragile woman behind. Men are made of action!

 

[I_Only_Live_Once]

I'm your epiphany? Yeah I have that effect on people.

 

[blinkwatt]

I had the same issues of such high standards,lol my success rate was small then,rarely went out on dates. I lowered my bar a few inche and the doors opened wide. I even had a chick ask me if I would rather come to her house and bang her then go to my prom. The success and expierence that you will get from the "lower" ones will help you on the super babe ones. Funny thing is,I still havent gone out with a ugly/fat/hairy chick to date yet and I lowered my standards even more as I realize that alot of the super babes have no personalitity.

 

[boulepiquante]

you can always FIND BAZILLIONS of reasons why you can t pick up on girls
once you ve got rid of an excuse here comes another one
let go of the excuses and start bedding all those hotties

i m sure imperfect
but so is everybody
im too fat ? I LL FORGET ABOUT BEING FAT AND CONCENTRAT RATHER ON THE GAME

 

[Sapiens]

I will try to post every day but if not at least a couple times a week

 

[JesterX]

Yeah i have this problem its like maybe if i do this or that i will be ready to pick up girls then i do it and i think of another thing to improve then another and i put of finding a girl. I guess self impovment makes sense but continually trying to make urself better and not even trying with girls can be a problem.

 

[iLoveCookies]

Day 1 Update:

I am sad to say there was no one, like at all. No one at school, no one at work, no one at the grocery store on the way home, no one at the gym. At all, there was this girl she looked like a soccer player, but I didnt hit on her becuase the first chance I got, she was on the phone and well lets face it, thats just rude.

I got kickboxing training tomorrow and there are usually hot girlies in the classes while I am doing pad work in the ring so we will see. I will keep you posted

 

[iLoveCookies]

i suck at life