Project "Space Mountain"

[Paid Laid & Made]

By now, most people on the forum already know about my date with HB6 this Friday. Her interest level is sky high, I used SMS to set things up and to keep her wondering about me, as the phone is way to personal and you can't really monitor the type of information that might leave your mouth in a moment of AFC'ness. I have a movie date setup for 7:15 and I picked the most popular movie theatre for couples. Now, as this is the first date and she is unlike all the other girls I have ever gone after, I can't help but re-evaluate my policy on things to do on the first date. She was not really a challenge for me and I am sure, I can get away with a lot of stuff on the first date. I want to keep her around as she has become what I now consider Project "Space Mountain" ... I will eventually get her to a good enough point where I can easily walk away with sex and I will update this thread to reflect current changes toward my ultimate goal.

*Mission #1*

What should I attempt on the 1st date. I want her to feel special and maybe even jack up the IL a bit more, if at all possible. Time for this project is not an issue as I am devoting myself to accomplishing my goal and do not have a time table set up yet.

 

[blienk]

F*** her in the ear.

 

[IamtheRemedy]

when u hug her, slip one hand in front and grab her ****. . . this'll let u know if shes the one for u or not

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

*Prediction For Date*

I am about an hour away from the thing happening. I predict light kino and some snuggling. I will do my best to walk away with a kiss when I drop her off.

- Side Note: Mom just told her she has to be home immediately after the movie -

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

*Actual Date 11/28/03*

Picked her up at her place, mom was at Wal-Mart shopping. She looked awesome ... may I say breath-taking? We drove to the movie theatre and we had a great conversation on the way there. I had calculated an hour ... due to it being a popular hang out spot and everything and normally it being jam packed on Friday night. There were not that many people and we had 35 minutes to kill, so we decided to go into Panda Express and eat another great conversation occured. During the movie (RADIO) she cried, it showed her sensitive side, I liked that. We always whispered stuff to each other during the movie and had a good vibe going between the both of us. After the movie she got called by her girlfriend, who has a problem with an abusive BF I guess and she asked her to come and be with her. So I drove her to her GF's place and ended up with a hug and thank you.

-Side Note: She asked if she could drive my car and I said ask me on our second date, she laughed and was like oh, so we are having a second date then?-

 

[M2k961]

Man that was an awesome....HUG CLOSE?

Then she questioned the second date?

I'd say her interest level is low.

Dare I say NEXT?

Edit: On second thought, she actually ENDED THE DATE by going to her GF's house. Then you say "abusive boyfriend I guess" I guess? What's that?

Heh, I'd definitly say NEXT.

 

[Sammo]

Did you even go for the kiss? If she willingly got close to you then it would of been a good idea to take things a little further, think about it. Why would she get close to you? Because she thought about you sexually, if you dont make a move soon shes going to get bored and **** you off. So hurry the **** up and stop being a pansy.

Good luck champ.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

*Q&A*

First off, I figured out that the BF was abusive. This girl has high interest level and she was not questioning our second date, she was under the assumption that I would wait a few days before showing interest in her for a second date. The HUG Close was very weak and I wished I could have walked away with a kiss, her being distraught by her friend's problems made it a unique situation and I had to go with the flow. Hopefuly she will contact me tommorow and I can continue working her at school. Like I said this is a Project and will require time. I will continue posting my daily happenings as I hope some fellow DJ'ers can learn something from this.

 

[x X x Lifestyle]

I don't think you should next her. Not yet, at least. She does seem to be showing signs of high interest. Damn it though man, you SHOULD have gone for the kiss, either way. Remember that from now on:

ALWAYS GO FOR THE KISS ON THE FIRST DATE! ALWAYS!

Where to go from here? I'd suggest waiting for her to get in touch with you first, not the other way around. Seem distant for a couple of days at the very least, have other things to do. Ask her out on another date within 4-5 days, and then update us on any happenings.

Plus, you shouldn't next a girl if her friend is having a problem M2k. If I was out with a chick, and one of my best buds called me because some serious **** had happened to him, she'd be on her way home with a sincere apology on my part and a rescheduling. If she wasn't down with that, next. She deserves the same courtesy.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

*Q&A*

The friend thing I was completely good with. I understand that and would do the same for one of my best friends. I always walk away with a kiss on the 1st date usually, unless the girl is really flaky or something happens that prevents me from doing it. My gameplan is just to let her contact me, I will have talk with her on Monday though as she eats lunch with us. But I am sure that she has not lost interest yet and wants things to go further.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

*UPDATE 11/29/03*

Girl sent me a SMS message. Check how I was and apologized for last night. I did some back and forth with her, figured out she was wearing Black Bra and Purple Panties . Then talked to one of my good GF's and she told me that my project's reputation is not the best and she uses men for their money. I also need ideas on how to proceed in my relationship, what should make a conversation piece over SMS and what should I do on Monday during lunch?

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

*UPDATE 11/30/03*

Today has been a relax type of day. I did not SMS yet with HB6, but on a more interesting note, was asked to call my EX while on MSN. She had to leave and told me to call her tonight. I have no intention of calling tonight and will stay focused on my Project, as I know plenty of you guys are waiting for my daily updates and are interested in the development of it. I will play it cool tommorow during school and try not to make a big deal out of my date, but still let her know that I had a great time and would like to go out again with her. As for the EX, she has added another genuine opportunity for a date, I know she still has a friend and if I play my cards right, I might get the phone number, although I seriously doubt it, but I need something on the side to keep my mind sharp. Its good to be a DJ .

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

*UPDATE 12/1/03*

Trouble in Paradise occured last night, so let me fill you guys in. While SMS'ing back and forth I incinuated the fact that she could be my GF if she played her cards right. She has asked me about the topic plenty of times. She replyed saying her Mom, would not let her have a BF due to her having to get a job. I was like okay, whatever ... She then came back and said she did not know me well enough to be my GF yet. I am like no problem and was like so we are just going to be friends? (Wanting to NEXT her). She was like oh ... just because I am not ready to be your GF, means we stopped dating? I was like yeah, unless we are going to be friends with benefits. She wrote back saying NO to benefits, meaning basically that I would be stuck having to pay for dates and walk away with nothing in return. I tried to clarify the benefit thing and she then said that she did not appreciate me forcing her into this position, she then changed her stories 4 times and finally said that she does not know me well enough to kiss me. (PERFECT example of a FLAKY *****). I wrote her a SMS during 3rd hour saying that (1) I am not interested in a GF (2) I want to continue dating her (3) I respect her wishes and thought she meant that Kissing would not be included EVER. She replyed during lunch and said I could meet her by the band room to talk, well a bunch of my other girlfriends started hollering at me and I got side tracked and the bell rang. Luckily my friend has her 7th hour and hopefully has talked to her. On a side not I gave my EX's phone number to her hook up and will try to patch things up with her and maybe walk away with her friend's phone number.

 

[Trainer]

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