"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Project Pivot and How to use a pivot?

charlezz

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Hey guys,

Need some help here.

I have this platonic HB8 friend (known for many years) whom knew about my sarging game. And she's more than glad to help me out in opening sets and getting into the game. <Background:- we always got a lot of ECs when we go out together>

May I just ask,

What to do exactly? As in does she open the set for me? or I do the opening with her along? What kind of openings?

Need good & detailed suggestions here. Thanks.

Cheers!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Distant Light

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Only had 1 girl that I would call a pivot and all I'd really do is have her come by sometimes and give me a kiss on the cheek, sit on my lap, etc. I haven't tryed much things with pivots.
 

charlezz

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Come on guys, I'm sure you ppl have HB platonic friends and i have heard how using a HB Pivot helps a GREAT deal in sarging. I need you guys to think or better, tell me ur experiences sarging using a Pivot.

I Run a search and found nothing useful on pivoting.

I don't think any portion in this forum covers much about pivoting. Or if there's any, can someone post link?
 
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