She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Doable but not sustainable.
Spin more plates. Friday/Saturday are peak for pulling babes and creating new rotations. Early in the week are for regulars. Top bish can have a sunday maybe and only for a few hrs.
You are so rude to other posters it's actually unbelievable sometimes. The objective of spinning plates is not to "tie down" anything, it's to keep options open. You're insulting the OP for being good with women.
Personally I max out at two at a time. My admiration to you guys for managing more than that, any more than 2 and I find it becomes a full time job and I have no time to actually do the stuff I like doing when I'm not dating.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
1) rotate the bars and clubs you take these girls out to
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Agreed, and then the lying becomes excessive. They ask you what you’re doing and you gotta play all coy. Takes too much work honestly