You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Doable but not sustainable.
Spin more plates. Friday/Saturday are peak for pulling babes and creating new rotations. Early in the week are for regulars. Top bish can have a sunday maybe and only for a few hrs.
You are so rude to other posters it's actually unbelievable sometimes. The objective of spinning plates is not to "tie down" anything, it's to keep options open. You're insulting the OP for being good with women.
Personally I max out at two at a time. My admiration to you guys for managing more than that, any more than 2 and I find it becomes a full time job and I have no time to actually do the stuff I like doing when I'm not dating.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
1) rotate the bars and clubs you take these girls out to
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Agreed, and then the lying becomes excessive. They ask you what you’re doing and you gotta play all coy. Takes too much work honestly