"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Project 2014: Year Of The Don

apprenticedj

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First off I want to say a sincere thank you to all the posters here at SS. You guys have been an invaluable resource for me in overcoming the now common AFC way of thinking. The red pill is bitter to say the least but it's necessary medicine these days.

I've decided to put myself on hold for a while and go on a bit of a hermitage with the end goal of making 2014 the best year of my life so far. During this time I'm committed to working on myself and becoming the best ME I can be. I'm talking total tear down and rebuild. I've already started and I'm feeling great.

This is my personal project of mine but I want as many DJs to join me on this to insure that 2014 is the Year of the Don for EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US!

All this thought of self-improvement has got me thinking. I'm pretty new here but it seems to be a common complaint from the more seasoned SS posters that this place has fallen off a bit recently. We CANNOT let that happen because we know the value of this forum.

Question for the moderators, can we block new people from starting threads for the first 30 days after registering?

I ask because this forum seems to be flooded with guys that sign up just to post about winning a particular girl they're in love with. If they had 30 days to read threads (and hopefully the DJ Bible etc) then they would find some answers on their own. I'm guilty of this too so I'm not judging.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RedZone

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Solid plan. I'm in. You can never stop improving.
 

Desdinova

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apprenticedj said:
Question for the moderators, can we block new people from starting threads for the first 30 days after registering?
Of course we can. We don't need any users to make posts on here anyway. Hell, let's just shut the whole thing down! Then we won't have to worry about reading all the posts from the clueless noobs because Sosuave won't exist.
 

Lotus Effect

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EDIT: ^^^^ LOL :crackup:

Despite being a good plan, a plan I'm following myself, I do believe that even that your idea of the 30 days to thread is filled with good intention, what makes you think that you could have done it, and others cannot.

Now that you had your shot, and you know stuff, f*ck the noobs?? Think about it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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