Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Progression is a huge part of the dating world. It's a common reason of guys being 'friendzoned', and a reason a girl may just completely lose interest.
I always see posts from guys saying that they went out with a girl for 2 or 3 dates. Then, all of a sudden, the girl begins to flake, or she doesn't return his calls, or even just tells the guy "Let's just be friends". I've been through this many times and it's frustrating. So what can you do to prevent this?
Always be progressing
You're out with a girl, and you share a few laughs together, and have some great conversation. Does this mean you had a good date? Maybe... Now let's say you go out with that girl time and time again, and you always share laughs and have great conversation. If that's all there is to it every single date, she'll lose interest. It becomes BORING. What's ok for a first date, might lose her interest on a second. Tha'ts where progression comes in.
Every time you see a girl, you need to constantly be shaking things up. Get a little more flirty every single time. Use more kino, start holding hands and playfully tickling her. Take that kiss from the last date, and turn it into a full blown makeout session the next. Of course you can progress too fast, but from my opinion, that's better than progressing too slow.
Think of progression as a staircase. You walk up the stairs, with your date right behind you. If you stop on one step for too long, you're date will become bored. She'll immediately want to find a different staircase to get to the top. Catch my drift?
Basically I'm saying never take too long to go for that kiss! Or even get the girl into bed! Of course that's near the top of the stair case and unless you're looking for a one night stand, you should never miss steps. Use all them steps you have to progress at a steady rate, and she'll love it all the way to the top!
I always see posts from guys saying that they went out with a girl for 2 or 3 dates. Then, all of a sudden, the girl begins to flake, or she doesn't return his calls, or even just tells the guy "Let's just be friends". I've been through this many times and it's frustrating. So what can you do to prevent this?
Always be progressing
You're out with a girl, and you share a few laughs together, and have some great conversation. Does this mean you had a good date? Maybe... Now let's say you go out with that girl time and time again, and you always share laughs and have great conversation. If that's all there is to it every single date, she'll lose interest. It becomes BORING. What's ok for a first date, might lose her interest on a second. Tha'ts where progression comes in.
Every time you see a girl, you need to constantly be shaking things up. Get a little more flirty every single time. Use more kino, start holding hands and playfully tickling her. Take that kiss from the last date, and turn it into a full blown makeout session the next. Of course you can progress too fast, but from my opinion, that's better than progressing too slow.
Think of progression as a staircase. You walk up the stairs, with your date right behind you. If you stop on one step for too long, you're date will become bored. She'll immediately want to find a different staircase to get to the top. Catch my drift?
Basically I'm saying never take too long to go for that kiss! Or even get the girl into bed! Of course that's near the top of the stair case and unless you're looking for a one night stand, you should never miss steps. Use all them steps you have to progress at a steady rate, and she'll love it all the way to the top!