"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Progression.... WOW

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eatgel

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When I first came here I was hungry for a girl... All the desperation and frustration was terrible! Looking back I am laugh and scoff at my self! How terrible and how pitiful I was, couldn't even get a mate, couldn't even control my own destiny in my hands... Now I KNOW that my life has flipped 180 degress... :up: I don't think about girls anymore, they come in the piles no mean to bragg... But their the last thing in my mind. There is just so much more important things than just chasing after girls. I know your probably thinking NO its the most important, its what makes us human and males... But when I was in your position it was me like that too. But for me now I have an ambition, a purpose, innovation and new experiences beyond my wildest dreams. There is so much mystery, so much magic to this life that we all miss out on because of our lack of love for ourselves and us being controlled by our minds instead of the other way around..... I am just posting because some of you guys will come in to this position I am here today and be amazed how useless and ignorant and pitiful u use 2 be. Cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm with you. I wish I could change my user name.

Friday had a first date, went to sleep afterwards
Saturday had another first date, then a second one an hour later, went to club afterwards and # closed
Talking to the #close from yesterday already today she has told me she wants to hang out again
My F buddy is dying to see me, she's been calling nonstop
My ex girlfriend thinks I've been calling her nonstop, the police have called and warned me to leave her alone. (lol) This must be her way of getting my attention.

This is the life of a PUA. I'm loving every second of it.
 
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eatgel said:
There is just so much more important things than just chasing after girls. I know your probably thinking NO its the most important, its what makes us human and males... But when I was in your position it was me like that too. But for me now I have an ambition, a purpose, innovation and new experiences beyond my wildest dreams. There is so much mystery, so much magic to this life that we all miss out on because of our lack of love for ourselves and us being controlled by our minds instead of the other way around.....
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This is one my favorite things I've ever read on this forum and should be read by everyone. It seems like you reached that DJ nirvana that people such as pook has gained. Actually forget at DJing or girls, you've found your life's meaning. It reminds me of that quote "Many men go fishing all of their lives without knowing that it is not fish they are after". Many of the people on this forum have to realize this for themselves. I know I'm still looking for it.
 
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