"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Progression.... WOW

eatgel

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When I first came here I was hungry for a girl... All the desperation and frustration was terrible! Looking back I am laugh and scoff at my self! How terrible and how pitiful I was, couldn't even get a mate, couldn't even control my own destiny in my hands... Now I KNOW that my life has flipped 180 degress... :up: I don't think about girls anymore, they come in the piles no mean to bragg... But their the last thing in my mind. There is just so much more important things than just chasing after girls. I know your probably thinking NO its the most important, its what makes us human and males... But when I was in your position it was me like that too. But for me now I have an ambition, a purpose, innovation and new experiences beyond my wildest dreams. There is so much mystery, so much magic to this life that we all miss out on because of our lack of love for ourselves and us being controlled by our minds instead of the other way around..... I am just posting because some of you guys will come in to this position I am here today and be amazed how useless and ignorant and pitiful u use 2 be. Cheers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I'm with you. I wish I could change my user name.

Friday had a first date, went to sleep afterwards
Saturday had another first date, then a second one an hour later, went to club afterwards and # closed
Talking to the #close from yesterday already today she has told me she wants to hang out again
My F buddy is dying to see me, she's been calling nonstop
My ex girlfriend thinks I've been calling her nonstop, the police have called and warned me to leave her alone. (lol) This must be her way of getting my attention.

This is the life of a PUA. I'm loving every second of it.
 

Voice

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eatgel said:
There is just so much more important things than just chasing after girls. I know your probably thinking NO its the most important, its what makes us human and males... But when I was in your position it was me like that too. But for me now I have an ambition, a purpose, innovation and new experiences beyond my wildest dreams. There is so much mystery, so much magic to this life that we all miss out on because of our lack of love for ourselves and us being controlled by our minds instead of the other way around.....
This is one my favorite things I've ever read on this forum and should be read by everyone. It seems like you reached that DJ nirvana that people such as pook has gained. Actually forget at DJing or girls, you've found your life's meaning. It reminds me of that quote "Many men go fishing all of their lives without knowing that it is not fish they are after". Many of the people on this forum have to realize this for themselves. I know I'm still looking for it.
 
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