"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Progressing Like a Muth-f*ka!!!

Scuba Steve

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Some positives for me...

As of today, I am back in my 36's. When I started this on my December 1st, I was wearing 42's and they were snug...

I met a chic last night under the most un-likely of circumstances. Wasn't looking. I came home and was walking up to my building when I saw a woman, I thought to be mid 30's (she's 36) walking by. She was wearing a baseball hat, a sweat shirt, yoga pants and sneakers. Clearly getting ready to workout. Smoking hot body...

Eye contact and smiles as I walked up. Without hesitation I said Hi. All the signs of interest were there.

Long story short, after a 20 minute conversation, of which I mostly let her talk, she gave me her number with a "make sure you call me" remark from her as I walked away. Couldn't believe how easy that was.

I was pretty confident in my 20's, but somehow kind of lost myself for a while. This forum helped me find myself again.

Between the weight loss, the muscle gains, the contacts and reading this site I am well on my way to becoming the man I used to be...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speed dawg

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Great, let us know how it progresses.
 
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