"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Progress gents, progress

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Okay, well for all of you that have following my recent threads, I finally got with that girl!

I once again saw her at the bar and then my friend's GF told me she wanted me so I just went in for it. She ended up sleeping over, however I didn't get much further than makin out with no top on.

The weird thing about this situation was that we were making out for liek 20 minutes, it was getting kind of intense and she like completely stoped and pulled away. Then she said that she is not having sex with me beacuse thats not the type of girl that she is. Now I don't know if that had any significance or anything.

So she also left today to go to a different school for the rest of the weekend and I still DO NOT HAVE HER NUMBER....So annoying because I cna't even talk to her....Well actually is taht a bad thing?

I dk I just figured I'd let you guys know I had somewhat of a success.

Peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ill give you your props. Good job man. Make sure you get that *****es # though, sounds like it could be good times.
 
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k201 said:
The weird thing about this situation was that we were making out for liek 20 minutes, it was getting kind of intense and she like completely stoped and pulled away. Then she said that she is not having sex with me beacuse thats not the type of girl that she is.
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LOL. She's only the type of girl to go to a bar and make out for 20 minutes.
 
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Well done!

She sounds a bit insecure so best thing to do is take things slow and make her comforable with you first.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Then she said that she is not having sex with me beacuse thats not the type of girl that she is.

I love that line.

I'm sure there were 100 guys in the bar that didn't get as far as you did that night, so look at it as a 'positive' experience and move on to the next girl.
 
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Okay, well the story I gave you guys left out a few facts...

The reason she said that to me was because a few months back we were both really really drunk and she ended up in my bed (that was the first time i got with her)...She wanted to f*ck and she vocalized it. But she had her period so we didn't...So the main reason for her stopping and saying that is because she just didn't want it to go down like the last time. I guess she just wanted to let me know shes not a huge ho.
 
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I don't understand why you didn't f*ck her. You should of kept making out until she showed less resistance you should of become more perseverant.
 
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Ok, well first off it never even crossed my mind that she didn't give me her # while I was with her.

Secondly, it was close to 7 in the morning while this was all going on and all I wanted to do was sleep.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You had her in your bed and you couldn't get her number?
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Hey, she just wanted some action. She wasn't looking for a long-term commitment. She must have felt slutty after making out with you without her top on. The next time you call her, she's gonna think that you're gonna want some more action from her.
 
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