"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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happyman2012

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Just a little background everythis is good with the girlfriend, high intertest level e.t.c. been together 6 months.

Ive got bipolar so I tend to think into things - which I keep to myself and never let her know!

Anyway I woke upto a text this morning from my girlfriend saying that she had changed her profile picture from one of us to one by herself. She said that she had wanted to change it for a while and the only reason she did it was because she liked the way she looked, and she put one of me and her as her cover photo.

Am I being paranoid thinking into this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know how you feel. I had a girl who put an image of her with her Labrador as her profile picture. They were sooooo cheating behind my back.

In other words, yes, you are being paranoid, as well as insecure. And insecurity is something that women loathe.

A secure man will not care what a girl puts in her profile picture. If she puts a picture of herself kissing another guy, a secure man simply drops her. You should have more important things to worry about in life than some image on vanity book.

If a girl changes picture, you ignore it. If she says something about it, your only possible answers are:

a)"Oh? I didn't notice."
b)"Oh wow! You *CHANGED* your profile picture? Let me just call the local news, they're going to be thrilled! THRILLED!"
c)"But you look fat in the new one."
 

happyman2012

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haha I just said to her its not a big deal, im not bothered and she can have what ever profile picture she wants!
 

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LOL its so much good to you & also for her its not bore so at least she's good then my girl friend its a very innocent even she cannot make any profile or cover photo. :p
 
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