"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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profile pic for facebook says many things?

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is it bad to put a pic of me and two girls kissing my cheek? do i attract certain girls like this. maybe some girls will get turned off thinking im a player?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's ALWAYS good to have a girl think you are a player (well definetly for young girls). But You have to have a lot of social proof and confidence to pull off the 2 girls kissing your cheek photo. Otherwise it just looks like some **** has put it up for attention , kind of like topless boy pics.

Just don't put the photo up if the girls are ugs.
 
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Mantis Toboggan

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For Christ's sake, buddy.

Do what you want. No, a facebook picture will not turn away women. Unless it's a picture of you banging another dude. What are you logically expecting girls to say, "Chance talks to other women? Well that's just disgusting!"

Oh, and what else are you asking? If we find her attractive? I dunno...why? What do you think of her? That's what's important. Unless it would make you feel more confident to see a bunch of strangers on the internet telling you that you talk to attractive girls.
 
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i think the pic's real blurry buddy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I recommend uploading that picture to imageshack.us or some other photo hosting site, not a smart idea to post a link to facebook on an anonymous internet forum. I've gone through the headache of one of my ex-girlfriends finding my post history while we were together. Trust me.
 
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