"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I'm wondering about what you're allowed to say in certain situations.

Calling a girl a b!tch for instance.. is this ok, when is this ok?
Saying some girl looks like a s!ut, other people might pass on your message.. but does it affect the girls opinion of you?

I personally think that you can call them these names if you're with just them or maybe one other person and you're joking in a playful way but... do other people think badly of you for this?

Whats the deal with calling say a prep girl a ho? Could it be dangerous to your reputation?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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some ways its okay... if you've known them FOREVER... and they say it first to YOU.

but you may not be in high school... where girl's say to their BFFs "hey you slutty wh0re, how are you" or "hey dumb dyke b1tch, how's your day?"

and they are possible the dumbest girls in the world... maybe it's just my school... dunno.

but does that sound cool at all?

when girls say **** like that... i'm thinking... "ooo badass girl...wow you're REALLY cool"...

pretty much don't go into that territory at all... cool or not... best-friends or not... it's just plain retarded.
 

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I usually joke about girls if they sound like hoes and stuff... but I'm wondering to what extent is this ok.

I hear guys calling girls b!tches and stuff.. even girls calling girls b!tches haha.
 

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i mean hoe n slut is kinda far.
i call girls b!tches all the time. actually i refer to women as b!tches a lot in from of girls. and skeets. and sluts. but thats just me.
as long as its said in a completely joking manner, adn thats the type of friendship you have.

I have some girls i would never call names, some of my closest female friends, jsut cause they'd take offense to it. it really depends on the broad.
 

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Some girls curse a lot, but some of them don't do it a lot. Like this one time we were at track and we had these tents where the boys and girls track team had to stay inside, and this one dude started swearing a lot and this one girls like "Oh my god, can we please stop swearing?".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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lol. is it ok to be ****y when you're using a word like that?

"you got a D on that test? oh well. looks like you're gonna be a hooker when you grow up"
 

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why are you so set on calling girls names? why dont you be "****y and funny" some other way.
 

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yeah. "I guess I know who NOT to copy homework from from now on." would be abit less harsh and probably produce a lot better response.
 

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It all depends on the girl dude. I got some girl mates who'll call me a man***** and so I'll call them sluts and **** like that. Thats the kind of relationship I have with them. Other girls I'll just call them by little nicknames I have for them that arn't offensive.
 

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my gf curses alot,

calls other girls b1tches, hoes, and bops all the time

but takes offense to it when she's called such names. girls call each other nasty names all the time

in my opinion girls (or people in general) who cuss constantly just make themselves look like total retards.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I dont swear at all unless there isnt a non swear for that word. I think it makes you look dumb. I prefer classy women. I dont like trashy girls. So its going to be hard to attract classy women when I sound like a sailor. Its not perceived as inteligent at my school and I assume most other places.

You can accomplish the same effect using different words. Just my view
 

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Plec07 said:
It all depends on the girl dude. I got some girl mates who'll call me a man***** and so I'll call them sluts and **** like that. Thats the kind of relationship I have with them. Other girls I'll just call them by little nicknames I have for them that arn't offensive.
It really does depend on the girl. HB9's and 10's (or who "think" they are a 9 or 10) can usually take things a lot better then 8's and lower.
 

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i cuss out girls all the time.

only wimps and pvssies are afraid of girls getting offended with them

real men like me dont give a sh1t
 

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Go getta said:
i cuss out girls all the time.

only wimps and pvssies are afraid of girls getting offended with them

real men like me dont give a sh1t
Yeah, you dont have to swear to offend them. Since I have found this sight I have been doing this ( offending). There is a difference between offending the and sounding witless. Just my opinion. You could be clever and witty not just straight up swear at them.
 

"Zee Germans"

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Hmm, swearing at females.

Who gives a s**t? She's a human woman not King bloody Kong, if she was the latter then you'd have something to fear. Like if she, i dunno, steals some food off my plate, "Oi *****!" said jokingly is perfectly acceptable, you don't just say it bluntly.

It's different to the usual guy who'd just let it pass and kiss her ass. I'm a man, not a charity g'damn it hehe
Besides the looks on their faces ARE priceless.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Hey Zee German..are you from Germany or German-American?
 
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