"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Product Review: BP Gel

Eternal

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For those of you who use Benzoyl Peroxide for your face, try the new BP Gel from acne.org.

I used the standard .75 tube of Neutragena 2.5, and it worked decently. Kept things under control pretty well. But it was too expensive, too overdrying, and too small a tube.

I ordered the BP gel and got a few tubes. So far, it's great. Applies REALLY easily, goes well with the moisturizer (I use Purpose) and feels better overall. Really good for the face and back. I've already noticed a LOT of the redness is gone and I'm looking a shitload better.

Give it a try.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah, i've recently started using the BP gel as well. i started off with the neutrogena, but it was WAY too expensive, like you mentioned.
 

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I ordered two tubes last week. Should get here any day now....!
 

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Originally posted by Barbillus
I ordered two tubes last week. Should get here any day now....!
Yeah, you'll get it probably tomorrow. Real quick shipping.
 
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