"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prodigy's Journey

Prodigy86

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Hey guys, I'm 24 and more than ready to get my life headed in the direction that I want it to be in. I'm aiming to make a lot of overall self-improvements while focusing in this thread on some of the main points that I want to change and improve.

I've been reading the material on this site and have made a lot of changes in the past year, but have hit some bumps in the road recently that have motivated me to really take things to another level.

Main points of focus:

Dating
I have a pretty big social circle and I'm pretty outgoing, but my main problems are that I have some serious approach anxiety and even when I do hit it off really well with a girl, I am horrible at closing. Because of this, I have never had a girlfriend and I'm a virgin. So as you can tell I have nowhere to go but up and my goals are to make consistent approaches, go on dates, and get a girlfriend.

Job
I was recently laid off from my job, so I am going to be doing a lot of job hunting.

School
I finished a year of college then dropped out a few years ago, but I want to start going again next quarter. It isn't for a couple months away, but for now I want to get the job as a PT and save up the money to back to school.

Working Out
I enjoy working out but have been slacking a bit lately but I'm ready to get into the best shape of my life. I plan on having a healthy diet, working out 4-5 days a week, and to limit the drinking to no more than once a week.

So as you can see, I've got a long way to go but I feel really good about what's to come. I'm going to be starting tomorrow and updating this with what will hopefully be some good field reports! Thanks for reading.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gray The Prince

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Go for it my man. I'm going to follow this journey and give you some feedback. I also started my own journal last week. It's good to see guys taking action around here.
 

TIC

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Prodigy86 said:
I have a pretty big social circle and I'm pretty outgoing, but my main problems are that I have some serious approach anxiety and even when I do hit it off really well with a girl, I am horrible at closing. Because of this, I have never had a girlfriend and I'm a virgin.
The big social circle is excellent. You will be fine. Most relationships come out of sc's anyway. You'll be getting blowed in no time. Are you going to stay on campus in college?
 
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