"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Procastination impact your SMV as a male

jhonny9546

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Procastination...
How many times have you heard this term?

I wouldn't say I was, because on the contrary, I've always been a diligent man.
The problem is that when I didn't have a clear goal to strive for and work toward, then I fell into this trap of procastination.

I'd really like to know how many of you have been here and how you solved it, and not only that... this aspect also greatly impacts a man's SMV, although there are many committed relationships in which the woman is with this "procastinating man"... in short, a child to care for.
At this point, there really isn't any sincere desire.
But still, many relationships out there with a man like this,basically they're telling the woman could have a complex to help others to feel needed.

Your experience on this :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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