problems with parents.what should i do

[joe45]

need some serious advice

i live at home now since i just started a job and the job doesnt pay well either. its like 11/hr in vancouver. my mom found a condom in my jacket and after that she started lecturing me. she assumes im using hookers and going to these massage parlous. why not im using it with a gf or someone im dating . huh. shes telling me how these escorts or hookers all have diseases and you can catch it and assumes that the ppl at my work got my into this. there was a thurs evening after work i went with them to all you can eat buffet and i guess she assumed i went to massage parlour instead.

what should i do
im chinese canadian but my parents are chinese cantonese

im thinkin of moving out but my job sucks and is it enough. i even had them assume i was in gang before since i came home late like 1030 before. never was or have any association with gang guys, but they assume i am one or hang out wiht gang guys. i have guy friends i meet from sporting classes and from a community and they call the house. the always think these guys are up to no good, in a gang or using me.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You need to have a serious conversation with her and tell her that your smart enough to only have sex with a girl your talking to and that you don't spend money on message parlors. Don't move out when you only make 11$ an hour. Go ahead and stack your paper up and try to find resources so that you can move out on your on.

Good luck playa.