"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Problems with long term GF

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I have a prob with my girlfriend is that lots of guys are interested in her and like er and want to make realtions with her.I dunno why im complaining but it really bothers me although she rejects them.but when she comes to tell me about something like that she sounds very excited u know dunno y.i tried to back off and she showed interest and luv to me more than anything else.another problem is that most of the talking with her she telling me hows those guys are handsome and sweet....etc.Why is she doing this?what does that indicate?why am i pissed lol?what should i do?shall i ask her if she still wants to go on with me or what.plz helpTHANKS
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being attractive to guys is something she's proud of. She feels like sharing this "achievement" with you ;)

What you need to do is when she talks in a complimentary way about guys that are into her, is to talk in the same way about girls that are into you. If there aren't any, why not? How can you change that around?

If she's just doing it to play with your head though, she isn't worth the effort. If you think its all a mind game, then NEXT is the course of action to take...
 

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ok i can talk about girls who are into me...but what kind of long relationship is that where we go talking about these stuff.I need to make some test if she really loves me but a hard test.
 

Lost In Translation

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she is testing you

POP QUIZ WHAT DO YOU DO .... WHAT DO YOU DO.... ( movie : speed cracks me up )

TO FAIL TEST ASK :

***do you still want to go out with me ?***NOTE***

oh really ? thats nice

i'm so lucky to have you then aren't i


crap like that.

TO PASS TEST :

make fun of her and it

thats nothing i got chicks making proposals to me

LAUGH


she is just trying to get some attention FROM YOU

take your game to the next level

get in her head so all she has time for is YOU


personally when she started saying it i would start undressing her and lay her down then stick my d*ck in her mouth while she is trying to talk this $hit to me

but thats just me :woo:



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“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “
 
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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
...personally when she started saying it i would start undressing her and lay her down then stick my d*ck in her mouth while she is trying to talk this $hit to me...

but thats just me :woo:
Hahahaha good one DJ Lost, that'll shut her upi!!!!! That is, if the obstruction is big enough! :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ KID, She is trying to make you jealous - don't play her game - make jokes about it!! If she is relentless and continues to persist with these stories, tell her that you really don't need the details and that her focus should be on her keeping you and not to worry about others!
 
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