"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Problems with Boot Camp

DJHoolahoop

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hey guys,

maybe this has been covered before. People will say search, then maybe i dun know how to use it properly cuz i get too many results that take too long to find.

so my problem is this, i went out to start doing the boot camp and hit up the mall. i took my time walking around and gretting people in the eye, or tried to. Problem was that no one looked in my direction, so how am i supposed to say hi to them when they aint looking at me?

then when they do, it's brief and it's gone like that. so far, it's day 1 and i've managed to say hi 5 times, but only a couple actually saw me and acknowledged it.

any help?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Layla

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go into a store. Its easier to get his in a store where people are stationary then when they are walking by you.

When you see someone standing, just walk up to them slowly, and right when they look at you say hi. It doesnt even matter if they arent looking at you, they still have ears.
 

Microphone Fiend

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speak in a loud firm voice to get their attention. Don't shout like a lunatic, but speak confidently.

Don't wait for people to look you in the eye to say Hi, most people walk with their face to the ground nowadays. Just say Hi, and they'll look up, or mumble Hi and keep walking

It happens to everyone doing the bootcamp, just keep at it, and forget about the social invalids who don't say Hi back
 

DJHoolahoop

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thanks guys, cuz i was getting turned off from it.. wondering if i still needed some time or not, but i'll try it.
 
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