"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Problems with Boot Camp

DJHoolahoop

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hey guys,

maybe this has been covered before. People will say search, then maybe i dun know how to use it properly cuz i get too many results that take too long to find.

so my problem is this, i went out to start doing the boot camp and hit up the mall. i took my time walking around and gretting people in the eye, or tried to. Problem was that no one looked in my direction, so how am i supposed to say hi to them when they aint looking at me?

then when they do, it's brief and it's gone like that. so far, it's day 1 and i've managed to say hi 5 times, but only a couple actually saw me and acknowledged it.

any help?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Layla

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go into a store. Its easier to get his in a store where people are stationary then when they are walking by you.

When you see someone standing, just walk up to them slowly, and right when they look at you say hi. It doesnt even matter if they arent looking at you, they still have ears.
 

Microphone Fiend

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speak in a loud firm voice to get their attention. Don't shout like a lunatic, but speak confidently.

Don't wait for people to look you in the eye to say Hi, most people walk with their face to the ground nowadays. Just say Hi, and they'll look up, or mumble Hi and keep walking

It happens to everyone doing the bootcamp, just keep at it, and forget about the social invalids who don't say Hi back
 

DJHoolahoop

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thanks guys, cuz i was getting turned off from it.. wondering if i still needed some time or not, but i'll try it.
 
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