Problems Well Beyond Women

[afc_recovering]

When my life was at an all-time low, I came to this site and it truly helped me out. I'm hoping that it can do that again.

I've been seeing this girl on and off over a span of a few months the last couple weeks we've been getting serious and I can honestly say I think I love this girl. So here's where the real sh!t began.

We were hanging out at a party and her curfew is 12 o'clock. (real strict parents) Me being the idiot I am, told her we were staying out til 1. So we got a taxi at 1, dropped her off, it was all good. Now this is about where I f*cked my life up.

A few minutes after I got home, I got a text from her saying to call the cops, her stepdad was beating her. Instead of calling the police I stole my dads truck (drunk) drove to her house without a license, went in and I ran straight to her room. The door was locked, but I broke it down. When I went in, she was laying there cut up, black eye and everything. The dirty f*ck had beat the piss out of her. The only reason he had stopped was to go in to get her mom. So I asked where he was and she told me 'just call the cops' and then I heard him screaming at her mom.

I can honestly barely remember what happened after this. I know that on the way to his room I grabbed a heavy glass vase and when I got into his room I smashed it over the back of his head and then jumped him. I've been in my share of fights but I've never beat someone as bad as I did to him.

I don't remember much, just the girl and her mom pulled me off of him. My hands and my shirt were covered in blood. He's hurt, atleast a concussion and a bunch of stitches where I hit him with the vase. I haven't talked to the girl in person since, just a few text messages. I'm being charged with a plethora of things, driving drunk, without a license, assault, assualt with a weapon. My lawyor says I might have a chance of getting out but I severely doubt that, especially because I'm now a repeat offender. My parents have kicked me out and I'm living at my grandparents. The girls now moved in with her real dad about 7 hours away and I haven't talked to her since.

I'm a mess, I haven't slept since it happened (Thursday night). Everytime I try to eat I throw my guts up. I honestly have no idea what I'm going to do. I can't believe how my life has went from the best it's ever been to an all-time low in one night...

 

[Cod3r]

Ahh geez,

I'm not going to rundown all the things you did wrong that night as you no doubt already know and are wishing all of this was a dream. The first thing I'll tell you is to not make any statements to any authorities (this is where they get u). Just keep your mouth shut and don't tell your story or anything else to anyone but your lawyer, just shutup basically.

If you do get out of this mess, stay away from crazy girls with problems. The fvcked up thing about all of this, is that eventho u were being a good cowboy the girl is probably mad at you for hurting her father. You're life is fvcked up and for no reason, u'll learn a valuable lesson if u live to tell about it. Good luck


-Cod3r

 

[edmond]

It might not be as bad as it seems, the f**king Police always try and frighten people with a load of BS charges. DO NOT say to anyone including so called friends about what happened, instead ask your brief what REAL evidence the Police have against you and work out a story that is 98% true, you being drunk, hear scream, broke door, etc....And the rest 2% of the story was that you did not assault the dad, but defended yourself because you, "feared for your safety."