I'm feeling kind of depressed lately. I'm looking for some insight as to where this problem might be originating. A - Could be me. B - Could be the fact that I'm finding all these girls online.
So I'll give you the details. I have talked to this girl probably 4 times online, and a couple times on the phone. Got her number, seemed interested to talk to me, and also meet. I picked her up for dinner and when we were done she wanted some icecream, and then she asked if I wanted to take a walk. I said sure, sounds fun. So we walked around for probably an hour or so, and she asks me if I'd like to go back to her place and hang out. I asked her if she'd like to rent a movie, to which she says she would. So we head back to her place and watched it. I had my arm around her, and I was stroking her shoulder, and was putting off good vibes, smiling and such. She liked the kino. She asked me if I wanted to drink, so we walked a couple miles to the nearest store to buy some alcohol, and brought it back to her place... sat down and mixed some drinks, smoked a bit too. It was good fun. Then I was sitting on her bed with her, stroking her feet, and holding her hands. I got behind her and started giving her a massage, and she was reeeally enjoying this. She says to me "wow, I'm tired... you can spend the night if you want, but nothing more." So everything was looking good except it appeared she didn't want to fvck unfortunately. So we spent the entire night holding eachother, I was kissing her neck and ears, and stroking eachother's backs and such...
So the next morning we ate some breakfast, ran some errands, and we walked a couple miles together around town doing things, and got some lunch. When we got back to her place, I told her I should probably take off cause it had almost been 24 hours since I met up with her the day before... and I said "we should definitely do this again sometime soon..." and she said that sounded good. She gave me a hug that lasted probably 2 minutes, and also a pretty nice kiss too.
I saw her online later that day and I sent her a message to say I enjoyed the time we spent together, and "it was probably one of the best first date's I've been on". She said cool, but wasn't very talkative online... logged off shortly thereafter. I called her the following afternoon around 4pm, she didn't answer so I left her a message asking her to call me back. Fast forward to 4 days later, and I still haven't heard from her, and she hasn't sent me a single message online either.
I forgot the damn DVD at her place so I left her a voicemail this afternoon ( 4 days after the 1st voicemail ) asking her if she could do me a favor and return that movie for me
Still haven't gotten a call back.
Anyway, what do you think happened here? It strikes me as odd that I'd get treated like this. It's happened before, but ONLY with girls I meet from online. Makes me wonder where the problem is coming from. Anyone have any insight with this scenario??
So I'll give you the details. I have talked to this girl probably 4 times online, and a couple times on the phone. Got her number, seemed interested to talk to me, and also meet. I picked her up for dinner and when we were done she wanted some icecream, and then she asked if I wanted to take a walk. I said sure, sounds fun. So we walked around for probably an hour or so, and she asks me if I'd like to go back to her place and hang out. I asked her if she'd like to rent a movie, to which she says she would. So we head back to her place and watched it. I had my arm around her, and I was stroking her shoulder, and was putting off good vibes, smiling and such. She liked the kino. She asked me if I wanted to drink, so we walked a couple miles to the nearest store to buy some alcohol, and brought it back to her place... sat down and mixed some drinks, smoked a bit too. It was good fun. Then I was sitting on her bed with her, stroking her feet, and holding her hands. I got behind her and started giving her a massage, and she was reeeally enjoying this. She says to me "wow, I'm tired... you can spend the night if you want, but nothing more." So everything was looking good except it appeared she didn't want to fvck unfortunately. So we spent the entire night holding eachother, I was kissing her neck and ears, and stroking eachother's backs and such...
So the next morning we ate some breakfast, ran some errands, and we walked a couple miles together around town doing things, and got some lunch. When we got back to her place, I told her I should probably take off cause it had almost been 24 hours since I met up with her the day before... and I said "we should definitely do this again sometime soon..." and she said that sounded good. She gave me a hug that lasted probably 2 minutes, and also a pretty nice kiss too.
I saw her online later that day and I sent her a message to say I enjoyed the time we spent together, and "it was probably one of the best first date's I've been on". She said cool, but wasn't very talkative online... logged off shortly thereafter. I called her the following afternoon around 4pm, she didn't answer so I left her a message asking her to call me back. Fast forward to 4 days later, and I still haven't heard from her, and she hasn't sent me a single message online either.
I forgot the damn DVD at her place so I left her a voicemail this afternoon ( 4 days after the 1st voicemail ) asking her if she could do me a favor and return that movie for me
Still haven't gotten a call back.Anyway, what do you think happened here? It strikes me as odd that I'd get treated like this. It's happened before, but ONLY with girls I meet from online. Makes me wonder where the problem is coming from. Anyone have any insight with this scenario??