"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tarotale

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before i write on, i want to thank all the advisors and ppl who spend time to read others' threads and try to help; they are better than not having anything, and sometimes really can help

i have been in this forum not for too long, but as i asked for advices and searched advices on my own, i realized a huge finding that is sooo obvious.

tell you the truth guys, i am nothing like a DJ. i do get my skills across and get girl occasionally, but i can NOT aknowledge myself as true, full, confident DJ who can hook up with literally any girl at any time.

I am not fully confident, i sometimes fvck up b/c of my natural afc-ness, i don even pass tests sometimes, i say something stupid, i get stuck in conversation and etc. i am not clueless, but i am not perfect

the biggest problem people have regarding chicks, is that they want Outer Game instead of Inner Game. i know all of you heard about this, but when i ask how many of you conquered your inside, who can say you did honestly.

if you get hos easy and say yes, i trust you. if you get no girls or little and say yes, i think that is bull shyte. look, if you conquered your inside, then you wouldn't even be posting threads and "what should i" "how should I" shyte like that b/c you are already a fvcking alpha dog who can get any girls you want.

i am not an alpha dog, but i am spitting blood trying. i used to be a pvssy and afc and my mother fed me up this "nice boy" crap. i can't tell how much time i fvcked up w/ girls, and back then i didn't even know i fvcked up.

like all true DJs say such as David Deangelo, Carlos Xuma, Ron Louis, Dave Copeland, John Alexander, etc, i g2 tell yal focus on your inside first. and then get techniques.

one wise man said "women cannot love you if you don't love yourself". so true. i cannot say that i love myself 100%, but i am getting there. you should too. again, you would say "f you, i love myself", but if you get no hos and have no idea w/ hos, i don trust you.

conquer your inside first my friends, i cannot stress this no more. no matter how much outer techniques and "what to say" things you have, if you did not conquer your inside, you cannot succeed. therefore, i did erase all that outer technique learning and now only focusing on being the alpha dog.

go and find some "alpha male books". i am going to buy two books and just make the subconscious. until then, i am not going to stress about outer techniques.

-how can you understand modern history without knowing old history?-
-how can a building stand without a frame?-
-how can a we exist without the tiniest cells?-
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As I've said before(as it used to read in my handle below): "Every attractive woman needs to be gamed in some way to f*ck her. They may not all require the same game, but they DO need to be gamed." That game could come in an AFC form(yes, quite a bit of attractive women seek out AFC's, contrary to popular belief on here), a DJ form, or both. Some might not like the AFC form, some might not like the DJ form, and some might not like the form of both put together...the point is, you have to act accordingly to some kind of form. Me, I choose the DJ form.
 

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1. No one can get any girl he wants. Its impossible.
2. Just because a guy gets layed frequently doesn't mean he doesn't need advice from time to time.
3. The first thing in inner game is stop caring what people think about you.
Scientific fact 10% of people won't like you no matter what you do.. this includes women
4. As I tried to illicit to you in another post there is no guy who never says the wrong thing and when he snaps his fingers girls come running.. its media propaganda..
Work on you.. workout.. get goals.. accomplish them and the girls will come..
Stop trying so hard..
As the saying goes..
You study long you study wrong..
So get off the computer and go out there and talk to every girl..
Learn to accept rejection.. you'll never get every girl but lucky for you its about 3.6 billion of them..
See ya
Good luck
Cola
 
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