"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mvp21

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well i met this girl an we hit it off really well i had her laughing the entire class but when i suggest we hang out she told me she dindt know me ive heard this a couple of times now from a few different girls who seem to really like me but then say that they dont know me and was wondering how do take this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Inquire

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she might be scared, cuz she might think tat if she gets into a relationship with you, it might be a bad one, like her last one. that might be the reason right there. or she just basically needs to know u better, hard to get, or that type of person.
 

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She's obviously not interested and thats all that matters. Who, why, when, where, whatever, make no difference. All that matters is IS and ISN'T.
 
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