"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mvp21

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well i met this girl an we hit it off really well i had her laughing the entire class but when i suggest we hang out she told me she dindt know me ive heard this a couple of times now from a few different girls who seem to really like me but then say that they dont know me and was wondering how do take this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she might be scared, cuz she might think tat if she gets into a relationship with you, it might be a bad one, like her last one. that might be the reason right there. or she just basically needs to know u better, hard to get, or that type of person.
 

Sammo

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She's obviously not interested and thats all that matters. Who, why, when, where, whatever, make no difference. All that matters is IS and ISN'T.
 
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