"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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Jay-X

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as i already said in another recent thread, the last couple of day i've been SMSing with a younger girl, although i am in a relationship.

well, today she meant to send me a SMS, but she did something wrong and the SMS was received by another person... her boyfriend (i didn't even know she had one, since she stalked me for a week and asked my friends for my number). so, i receive an anonymous call and someone started calling me names and threatening me. i answered that he could stick something up his asscrack and he told me that he wanted to meet my fùckin ass. i accepted and he said he was coming over to my girlfriend's school (that's the same school attended by her girlfriend), where i was to see my girlfriend when she left school. then i immediately receive another phone call, by his girlfriend who told me to go away immediately, since they were coming to beat me up. i answered that i'm not a coward and that i would have been there anyway. suddenly, a group of 6 poor coward (one of them with a bar in his hands) approach me and her boyfriend introduces himself. he starts askin' me about the situation and i say that i don't know the fùck he wants from me, since i already got a girlfriend and i'm not going to mess around with hers. then, his girlfriend came over and tried to make up some excuses (these guys were REEEEEALLY stupid so they even believed some of these incredibly fake excuses). then he told her that she's a b1tch for not telling him that she was the one to ask for my number. all the time i hardly managed to stop laughing and smiling, since this situation looked reeeeeeally ghetto, while i live in a wealthy city where we see things like this just in movies. then, we all went away. some minutes after, she tried to call me on my mobile, but i was chatting with a friend of mine's father whom i had just known and i didn't answer.
after pickin' up my girlfriend, i went back home with some friends and one of them told me that he knows these guy and they are a bunch of neo-nazi losers and not to fùck around with them.

after lunch, i left my house and who i met? that girl talkin' with his boyfriend. i came by them smirking and they said hello, while he started to make other questions about the issue. i told him that i was tired of this sh1t and to discuss it with his girlfriend. then, he ended up the conversation and drove his moto away. after some steps, his girlfriend came by and started to talk with me. we walked together, chatting and i laughed about what happened and she told me not to fùck with them too. i told her that if they try to fight me in a group, i'm gonna call some friends and smash their ass. then, at a crossroads, his boyfriend happened to be there and he made a "i'm gonna cut your head off" sign to her. she told me that he acts this way cuz he is in huge love with her.

what should i do if these guys bother me again? should i quit every contact with this girl? she asked me if we could meet on saturday afternoon, so i don't want us to be stopped by this wannabe thug.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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uhmm... ya, next

of all the gorgeous girls out there why couldn't you pick a single one that didn't have friends that wanted to kill you:eek:
 

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Get the hell away. It's her fault she's been with a bunch of thugs.
 

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beat his ace,put a roll of quarters in ur hand and make a fist and knock him out, that simple, have some people scattered around that will jump in if his friends try to get in it, dont be intimidated, keep persuing this girl, specially since he is a ace hole
 

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i actually don't give a sh1t about the lady, since.

1. i'm already in a relationship
2. what kinda girl would ask for other guys' numbers while she's got a boyfriend?

what the situation turns around now is the guy... i don't want to give up with the lady, since they would think that it's due to my fear of him (which doesn't even exist, since i don't fear him at all).
i don't want anyone to think i'm a coward
 

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Be the Alpha Male here.

Try to befriend the guy. If had hostile guys come up to me after I hit on their GF or something, and they threatened to kick my ass.

Straight out I just said, sorry man I didn't realize she had a bf, you've got great taste though, I'm Zach.

9 times out of 10, we shake hands and talk a bit, and then were cool. I see these guys all the time, no more hostility, actually closer to friends now.

My suggestion... but Nazi's aren't the most rational people...
 

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Originally posted by Bussey
Be the Alpha Male here.

Try to befriend the guy. If had hostile guys come up to me after I hit on their GF or something, and they threatened to kick my ass.

Straight out I just said, sorry man I didn't realize she had a bf, you've got great taste though, I'm Zach.

9 times out of 10, we shake hands and talk a bit, and then were cool. I see these guys all the time, no more hostility, actually closer to friends now.

My suggestion... but Nazi's aren't the most rational people...


that's a really good advice, when dealin' with clever thugs (not sarcasm, i actually know some really intelligent thugs). unfortunately, as you said, it's not that easy with nazis who are known to beat people just because they think they are communists.

secondly, it's not alpha to be sorry when you did nothing. i mean, she was the one who asked for my number, even though we both were in relationships (and she knew that i have a girlfriend). i told him what happened and he said "well, i don't give a fùck what happened", so i answered "i don't give a fùck either, man"

third, i don't wanna become friend with those guys... sh1t, who needs them?! they are stupid as sh1t, i've already got lots of friends, so fùck'em... the only problem now is that if i stop seeing this girl, people could think that i'm intimidated by that lame-@ss...
 

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Yea I know what your saying. And I didn't literally mean, say "I'm Sorry" cuz I realize you didn't do anything. I rarely say sorry either, usually its just like, you got good taste, so you can't really blame me man. He agrees etc..

And I agree don't become friends with these guys, but at the same time, don't make enemies. I didn't say I became friends with all of the guys, but some did, others are just guys who I nod at in the halls. It's good for social proof when everyone knows you.

Good luck man!
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
the only problem now is that if i stop seeing this girl, people could think that i'm intimidated by that lame-@ss...
I thought you weren't seeing her :rolleyes:
 

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when i said "seeing", i didn't mean it in a litteral sense, i just meant "if i stop any contact with her"
 

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