problem with shy girl plz help

[Mr.Freestyler19]

idk how to kiss her without freaking her out cuz shes like really shy.
i am 90% sure she likes me.

 

[faiNt`]

idk how to kiss her without freaking her out cuz shes like really shy.
i am 90% sure she likes me.

Wrong. You are 100% sure she likes you. Repeat that to yourself every single damn day until you have it running through your head on repeat.

If she's shy, just don't neg her and maybe throw an extra compliment here or there. Most shy girls will run at the first sign of negative comments, situations etc .. You want to make her feel special because, most likely, no guy has ever done that for her before.

Just tap her on the shoulder and give her a big smile and say "hi." Get her number and call/text (text if she's really that shy) and tell her to hang with you. If you get a no/busy twice and have asked a week in advance both times, you "next."

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

yeah i forgot about the 100% lol..and she has no phone......i can feel tht she feels good around me and i am start the compliment part...i hav also started kino

 

[Scar Tissue]

shyness usually is a strong indication of low self esteem so faint is correct about the need for complimenting her and never trying to throw a neg. Negs just are not needed with shy girls.

But whats the situation with the hanging out? Do you know her from school but also you have been hanging out with her outside of school?

Ill just assume you have been hanging out with her. Getting the kiss from her is all about confidence. If shes shy then you wont get anywhere without confidence in yourself.

I remember trying to kiss this one girl goodnight who was also shy and she turned her head in embarassment. She denied me again the second time I tryed to kiss her on our next date. The girl was in love with me but was just very shy and nervous to kiss or do anything. I know this to be 100% true because she apologized and explained it through texting later that night lol...

Annnyway, the reason I brought that up is because she may deny you when you try to kiss her, even though she wants to be kiss and likes you. This shouldnt discourage you at all if it does happen. Infact I get quite a bit of amusement when it happens to me. Its all about being confident. Its all about knowing that you will get her in the end, so if she turns away from your kiss tonight, oh well, shes not going anywhere so dont sweat it.

So in review
-she wants you to kiss her
-make sure your alone when you do try to kiss her
-dont be surprised or discouraged if she turns away
-its all about the confidence

Its time to stop being a boy and start being a young man

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

we havent go out yet because i am like taking slow on her. tomorrow is a half day..7 periods with lunch after tht. i hav her in 6th period and i am going to ask her to hang out with me at lunch which i think she'll accept...i will take her to the stairs and then i'll just use some seductive eye contact get really close to her.....hold her hands... then tell her how beautiful she is and then the kiss

 

[Igetit!]

i am going to ask her to hang out with me at lunch which i think she'll accept...i will take her to the stairs and then i'll just use some seductive eye contact get really close to her.....hold her hands... then tell her how beautiful she is and then the kiss

And what movie did you get this from?


Look,you said this girl is shy,right? Well the way to open her up is for YOU to express WHATEVER IT IS you're wanting from her. Or to put it another way...


If you want her to be open,then YOU must be open FIRST.

If you want her to be talkative,then YOU must be talkative FIRST.

If you want her to be easy to talk to,then YOU must be easy to talk to FIRST.


Whatever it is you're wanting from her,you must ALREADY HAVE IT within yourself and demonstrate it to her FIRST.


It's like if someone starts laughing and cracking up and you stay around them long enough,then the energy and mood they're giving off will infect YOU,then you'll start laughing as well.


You can think that the thing they're laughing about is stupid and doesn't make any sense,but because of the energy and vibe they keep giving off,you'll find yourself laugh,and NOT EVEN WANTING TO.


Their vibe and passion overrides YOUR THINKING. you'll be like,"I can't believe I'm laughing at this,it's so dumb". But you'll still be laughing.


Do that with this girl. You're trying to get her to open up. Ok then,so BE OPEN. Express it strongly. Be like,"You know what happened to me one time? Well I was going over to my friend's house and...."

Tell her something embarrassing that once happened to you and laugh about it. This will make her feel compelled to share a similiar story about something embarrassing that once happened to her,and thus make her start opening up more.


You simply need to express TO HER whatever it is you want FROM HER.

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

i didnt get this from any movie lol...and i am pass this open thing since shes like really open when talking to me